TOUCH IS NATURAL

I recall a neighbour of mine way back when I was around 8 years old. He used to really irritate the hell out of me; pushing me and pulling my hair when we played. But only later did I realise he actually liked me!

Such behavior, I'm told, is natural.

Obviously when we were older (we met again after many years), he was finding other ways of touching me without seeming too intimate. But that's another story.

The main idea is that touch is often a much-overlooked ritual. Many of us take it for granted and when we do try to do it, it often comes off as either too overbearing or contrived.

One of the best ways to get through this is through dancing. I've come to realise that touching each other, an arm, hip or waist during your groove, is more acceptable. It opens doors or can shut them just as quickly but at least you know in an instant if a person digs you or not.

One of the many ploys women use during dancing is to pretend to balance themselves on a guy as if preventing a fall. Good ploy which works a lot of the time.

For the guys, take a gal dancing and you need not have to make up excuses if you have to touch her, i.e. lead her to the dance floor, hold her hand so she doesn't get lost, or even go up (real) close to her to talk to her under all the din. Who knows what that will lead to!

Missus Singapore out!

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