THANKS FOR THE INTEREST

I'd like to thank all of you who have been chatting me up with my new facility. I do miss some of you and have been cut off from others but I put it down to teething problems. It's not as straight-forward as the conventional chat window as it doesn't quite beep and pop up when there is a message sent in. I'll probably sort it out in due course so I appreciate your patience. We will see how it goes.

On a separate note, I am pleased bythe overwhelming interest - all your comments and email - regarding my Thursday Tease pics but it's a little disappointing that you guys don't find other stuff worthy of your time here. I try my best to keep to a post a day and have been doing so since 2009 and its frigging hard! So do run through the blog and judge for yourself if it warrants more of your time on top of catching your eyeballs on Thursday.

Missus Singapore out!

Missus Singapore or Miss Us Singapore (at your own peril) - A married woman on the loose

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Another year older

I’m writing this past the stroke of midnight. Looking back, a lot has happened in the past year. I got engaged. We looked for a new home. Last November, we got married. We renovated our new home this March and moved in, a month later.

Looking forward, I’m still on the right side of 30 - but that won’t be for long!

Which is why, I am happy to announce, that we will be expecting a baby later this year :) It wasn’t something we planned judiciously but we were happy to go along with whatever God had in store for us.

The newspapers have been writing a lot about our ageing society and shrinking local population, and it sounds very much like the fault of people not wanting to get married (which is still the expectation in our conservative society), and married couples not wanting to have children. But this is not the full picture. I know a growing number of people who are still trying to start a family, sometimes at great cost.

So I am not taking our blessings for granted. Here’s to a new year of my life, and to a little new life.

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THURSDAY TEASE

It's that time of the week and I hope you have been having a good productive week at work. Hopefully this week's tease will give your tired minds a little respite. The weekend is almost here so take it easy.

Also, I'm still waiting for suggestions on planning a get-to-gether, since there are so many of you wanting to meet yours truly. Shoot away.

Missus Singapore out!

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La Pizzaiola: Affordable Pizza for the whole Family!

Parma and Rucola pizza 12 inch $16.90 Have you ever adopted a restaurant before?  You know, that's when you are so happy with everything at a particular restaurant that you tell yourself "Ahh!! From today onwards I am going to come here whenever I feel like having......!" Well, our family just adopted La Pizzaiola as our Pizza restaurant! The kids are always hankering for pizza and so I am

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THE PILL

Here is an image sent in by a special reader of mine, who knows me pretty well, inside and out. He's a great guy and doting father! I hope to see you soon YP and don't worry, I'll take both in my mouth. Hope you are all having a great week so far.

Missus Singapore out!

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LONGEST BARREN STRETCH (POLL 46)

In a poll I carried out between March and April this year, I asked what the longest strech was without sex after one became sexually active. A total of 156 people responded (thanks again) and it appears the most common choice was between one and three months.

That is a long time. Apart from the six to seven weeks after childbirth when I abstained, for obvious reasons, it has to be three weeks for me. And that includes no DIY! It was hard initially but you get used to it, although my friends did mention that I was a wee bit on the grumpy side. 

Here's the thing. Once you overcome the initial difficulties and begin a (conscious or unconscious) phase of abstinence, it becomes easier to be without it. That is a dangerous path to take because when you get too used to it (or without it), which many couples do, you might inadventenly put it on the backburner.

If work or family takes you away from one of the activities that gives the most pleasure or helps to de-stress, then you ought to relook at things. Sex is not the most important ingredient but it sure as hell is up there.

So anyway, here are the results of the poll mentioned.

Since Becoming Sexually Active, What Is The Longest Stretch You Have Been Without Sex?

Less than a week: 21 (13.5%)
2-3 weeks: 18 (11.5%)
1-3 months: 39 (25%)
3-6 months: 18 (11.5%)
6 months - 1 year: 27 (17.3%)
Too Long To Recall: 33 (21.2%)

Total Respondents: 156

Missus Singapore out!

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VIDEO OF THE WEEK

Here is a set of earphone buds that I'm sure many guys will love, and they don't even need to put them on! Thanks Vanessa for this clip.

Reminds me of a group of well-endowed weekend bladdergals that seem to assemble at East Coast on most Sundays. But I'm sure they would be more 'appreciated' if they exchanged their blades for pogo-sticks.

Have a great week and let's hope we get good weather for a change.

Missus Singapore out!

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