SPANKY SPANKY

I have to be honest. The idea of being spanked was not high up on my lists of priorities in my earlier sexual adventures. For one thing, I was never particularly well-known for my high threshold for pain.

Of course as I grew older and pushed the boundaries of sexual pleasure, I gave it another go. While I could not say that I went gaga over it initially, I was not repulsed by the sensation. Thanks to learned and understanding 'instructors' I began to enjoy it more, especially over the last five or six years.

Over that time, I realised that I was going by it all wrong from the beginning. I was focusing on the actual spanking and not about the idea or deep-seated fantasys the sensation would bring out.

Pain, they say, can be pleasure; in a warped sort of way, I'll have to agree with it but erotic spanking when delivered right, can cause a delightful sting and warmth that slowly translates into pleasurable vibrations in and around the whole region.

Then, I realised from some 'experts' that it is not about how hard you hit but where you hit that matters. It is widely accepted that different people garner different levels of pleasures from the same type of spanking. What that simply means is that one ought to find the item - could be the hand, paddle, slapper, riding crop, bristle-whip or any other flogging toy - that produces the most satisfaction with an ideal or comfortable intensity.

From what I've gathered, the lower bottom, just above the upper thigh seems to be the most favoured area to be spanked. I concur. Both male and females seem to like the sensation that it creates.

More to that, there is also the psychological aspect of humiliation, which many of us subconsciously need in order to feel love. In a warped sense of logic, she may feel the need to be disciplined, 'cleansed' and perhaps even healed. That would go some distance in making her feel wanted. There is a strange need to be punished and this invariably can be a turn on for her.

For the men I spoke to, most seem to agree that being spanked by a woman does feed their desire to give himself wholly to her and be under the control of the woman he wants. Pretty intimate in this sense.

Of course in many ways, this act of spanking could also be part of a mere role-playing session i.e. straight-forward physical spanking without any emotional or psychological effect or purpose.That has pleasures on its own too.

For me, I personally tend to get more pleasure from a man feeling 'weakened' by my overly sexual overtures and finding the need to put me back into my 'good-girl' mold by giving me a good wholesome spanking. But that's just me.

I got this delightful slapper - with fur padding of course - from Edenfantasys which really hits on me the way I like. Of course if I feel a little more daring, I'd request for a harder smack with the other bare wood side.

There is such a wide choice of spanking and fetish items at Edenfantasys and looking at them, chances are, you will be eager to try them all. Just remember, the smaller (or thinner) the surface area of the spanking item, the greater the sting.

Missus Singapore out!


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