My friend had already blabbed that I was the author of a sex-related blog which probably prompted her to pull out a chair next to me. Apparently, she had checked it out and wanted to discuss some things with me.
One of the subjects brought up related to giving a blow job. She was telling me how she would 'keep her husband' satisfied and 'quiet' when he pestered her for a blow. She claims she would just pull down his pants, go down on him and get him off, and it would be over.
I suppose everyone has their own way but personally, I would rather treat a blow job as part of the whole ritual of sex. If it gets too robotic, then I think it would defeat the whole purpose. I'm not talking here about the occasional quickie blows. It's an experience you create that wants you coming back for more.
It's so easy, like everything in life, to make it monotonous. Situations and experiences are there for the savouring but it is us who spoil it. If you take pleasure in doing something, it rubs off on your partner who will also enjoy the event.
I think part of the joy for a woman, to give her man a blow is the teasing and journey towards the actual act. You can actually turn a mere blow into an erotic and passionate event, equal to sex itself. But for me, it has to be reciprocated. In case you are thinking that women are always givers, think again, because we want just rewards too.
If we cultivate the habit of sex, or a blow, being to solely satisfy a man's sexual needs, we are heading down a dangerous path of unequal fulfillment. In time, we may start to forsake our own needs while a man may take it that his needs are paramount. Whose fault will this be then?
Missus Singapore out!
Missus Singapore or Miss Us Singapore (at your own peril) - A married woman on the loose
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