SAVOUR SEX

For some reason, I'v recently been receiving quite a number of emails from women complaining that sex is a one-way thing in their relationships. More often than not, they seem to be satisfying their partners and not getting their 'fair share' in return.

Well, I am not certain about the dynamics in their relationship and I don't want to generalise because everyone has a unique situation which needs to be tackled individually. However, for the sake of getting my message out - and it's the same one I've been trying to get out for the longest time - I have to say this.

The best foreplay for sex is establishing an open and spontaneous line of communication. Couples don't talk enough about sex with each other. Yes, they talk about the kids, bills, work, etc but somehow, they just side-step sex. And yet they wonder why their sex lives are in a not-so-good-place.

On the surface, one can easily get the idea that the fault is with their partners but if things have come to such a roadblock, then I'd go out on a limb to say that the woman is at fault too. If a man has slipped into his me-only routine, the question to ask is did you have a part to play in inadvertently 'nurturing' that?

Sometimes you have to be selfish too and make your demands in bed known too. Take what you want and then give back. Men will be men so no us spending all your energy trying to change them. The best thing we can do is to 'ímpose' our desires and lusts on them.

But before that, you ought to get down to really talking more openly about your sexual desires, fantasies and lusts. Get that out in the open and soon you will be able to tell the difference in not only your sex lives but inevitably, other facets of your relationship. It's just the kind of boost your sex life and relationship need to push it on for the long haul.

Missus Singapore out!

Missus Singapore or Miss Us Singapore (at your own peril) - A married woman on the loose

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