BEATING THE SEX KILLERS (PART 1)

Whether you are married or not, or have children or not, or work or not, life is hectic. For most, the sexual frequency curve tends to take an exponential dip over time. It gets worse after marriage. Moments of passion slip deeper into our conscious minds until for some, it takes refuge in their sub-conscious and occasionally emerging on their Things To Do list.

Stress is often to blame according to many. But think back in the early day? Tired or stressed out as we were, just being close to our partners who get our motors running. Obviously hormonal, emotional, environmental and situational changes behave like the proverbial spanner that wrecks the sexual journey.

You may still be in love and excited by the closeness to your partner but these days, you will have to physically and mentally change the gears to desire mode. It’s like the excitement of sexual intimacy has become so much harder to attain.

You need to relax, tone down and re-launch your intimacy program and if you are too exhausted, you sometimes choose not to. That describes when you sex drive has gone into neutral, which is natural. I’ve experienced it too. The good thing is I can now say that in past tense.

The worst possible thing to do is to switch off from it completely. Yes, you may not have it as often but you will get your engine going again at some point and you don’t want your rustiness from ruining it. (to be continued tomorrow...)

Missus Singapore out!

Missus Singapore or Miss Us Singapore (at your own peril) - A married woman on the loose

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