FORGET PERFORMANCE

One of the biggest misconceptions about sex, which I too have been guilty of years ago, is that sex should always be about performance. Do it well or don't do it at all.

That however, can put enormous pressure and expectations in the forefront and in some ways ruin any hope of have a healthy and uninhibitied sex life. It is important for both parties to know that they do not need to perform like porn stars each time they have sex. Neither does the woman have to doll herself up or don the hottest lingerie she has.

Inevitably, doing as such once in a while can add that special spice to things. However, do it too often and it can actually have the opposite effect. The reason why that is special is because you don't do it often.

Sex should be fun, frivolous and relaxing but as it stands, that is not the case these days. Society has somehow ingrained in us that one needs to have fantastic sex all the time. What is more important I feel, is to not focus on how you or your partner performs in bed but to channel your energy on having a great time. Sex is what it is but how enjoyable it is to us really depends on us.

Missus Singapore out!

Missus Singapore or Miss Us Singapore (at your own peril) - A married woman on the loose

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