CLEAR THE PATH TO GREAT SEX

One of the most important things about upholding a healthy and active sex life, is not the sex itself. Technique, mutual satisfaction, understanding and consideration is up there but ultimately, what goes on inside the mind is vital.

Many people claim that avoiding negativity is the way to go. And I fully agree with that, although getting it done is another thing altogether. But it's not impossible. Baby steps are the way to go.

It's important to take a few steps away from your hectic lives and look at the things that get you down or are sources of irritation and frustration. Start small. For me, it used to be keeping the home clean and looking after the kids' needs. I was not particularly good at that because I used to want to do everything for them.

But over the years, I've grown wiser and learnt how to delegate. If each one does their little part for the household, you will find yourself with more time for yourself. The knock on effect is that you get time to do your own stuff.

One of the most recent tasks I've completed is cleaning up my Facebook of pretentious and back-stabbing friends. Like many, I was excited with Facebook came around, eagerly adding and accepting old friends from school or work. But as time went by, I've realised why I had not kept in touch with many of them to begin with.

A good friend of mine told me once that they feel threatened by my beauty, self-confidence and assured womanhood and sexuality. Even some of the clothes I wear gets them commenting on why I shouldn't be wearing such revealing numbers.

I used to  brush that off but now, I think it's really true. They chide my openness, my open display of being and feeling sexy, and even talking about sex. I just feel so sorry for them as they continue to grow in frustration and let themselves just go.

So cleaning up Facebook and even Twitter, was a good step. My next one is to get my work organised. I actually have started on that and have someway to go but at least I've got over the difficult part - starting. With a clearer and more organised mind, chances are it will free up more time to slip into thoughts of enhancing one's sex life.

With everything gradually falling into place, I feel a lot lighter, energised, and ready to fly high over the next phase of my life. 

Missus Singapore out!

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