FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS (PART 2)

So before we slip into the rules for engagement when in a fuck-buddy sort of relationship, I just thought it pertinent to delve a little into the hazards that may emerge. Thereafter, I’ll touch on why such relationships appeal.

These are just some of the reported issues linked to a NSA sexual relationship; ruining future friendships and serious relationships, loneliness and depression, lower self-esteem, unwanted pregnancy, and invariably, the risks of contracting sexually transmitted diseases including AIDS. There are also a few cases reported where it also ruined one’s reputation.

With that out of the way, we can now focus on why people are enticed by NSAs. The first is that there are no commitments to adhere to, liberating to say the least. Let’s face it, for the majority of us, sex is one of the most enjoyable instinctive activities that our species enjoys, for as long as we are able to.

With this freedom comes the much-desired aspect of sexual experimentation – something I feel is an important part of maintaining a healthy sex life. We all get to explore and discover our sexual fantasies without the overhanging restrictions of guilt or shame.

Variety is another element that many of us lack and this offers just that. The ability to keep things fresh and new is underrated. To be able to keep the lines between work/family and sex play distinct makes things simple and less complicated.

Being in a serious relationship often blurs these lines and that can be quite stressful for some of us to deal with. If many of us had a choice, I’m quite sure we would want to keep them separate. So there we are, all set to move into the rules of engagement. Watch out for that in Part 3 of this series.

Missus Singapore out!

Missus Singapore or Miss Us Singapore (at your own peril) - A married woman on the loose

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