FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS (PART 4)

Alas, this is the last part of the friends with benefits' series. As promised, here is a collection of people who shared their experiences with me. I hope you find them inciteful.

Don (Albany): 'My FB and I have been at it since we left college. We are now in our 5th year at it. I think we have been successful because we know our boundaries. We are both very career minded and have no time for any serious relationship. So this works best for us.'

Sinta: 'Don't get your regular friends involved. A bad idea.'

Kelly (Singapore): 'Never try to have a sex friend who works in the same office as you. You can be as discrete as you want but things will be found out. Trust me. We were not forced to quit but it became really awkward when someone saw us behaving intimately.'

Ralph_sody (US): 'I liken this to swinging. So I play by the same rules. The most uncomplicated types are with married couples. Not dating couples, i repeat, married couples. No complications and you are reminded where you stand.'

Ching Lin (Singapore): 'If your FB starts to get romantic and mushy, it's time to call it quits. Always keep it simple and leave no footprints, which means no gifts, nothing.'

EspanaMary (Madrid): 'Always try to change the location of your meetings. Keep it exciting and let loose your fantasys.'

Downtowngal: 'I've had many FBs over the years. I try to keep changing them or they get clingy. The best are couples. If they are steady or married, even better. They express their love to each other and use me as a prop, which I do not mind. No emotional problems with them. But hard to find willing couples though. You have to search hard.'

Gong: 'Don't bother too much about looks andbeauty. That way, you can easily keep your attraction focused on what's below the waist.'

Ann (Malaysia): 'Keeping it cold emotionally between FBs ensures that the relationship stays hot  (the sex) for a long time.'

If you guys like to share with me your experiences, you can continue to send them in. I hope you enjoyed this series or at least learnt something from it. Thanks also for all of you who sent in your comments regarding this series.

Missus Singapore out!

Missus Singapore or Miss Us Singapore (at your own peril) - A married woman on the loose

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