HOW LOW WILL YOU GO?

Which man won't be tempted?

In case you have been to Mars recently, you are probably tuned in to the ongoing case which is unfolding at our local court.

Ms Cecilia Sue, 36, the woman at the centre of sex-for-business case involving former Central Narcotics Bureau (CNB) Director Ng Boon Gay. I'm amazed at the ridicule this woman is receiving for what she had purported resorted to in order to seal a deal.

A blow job or four later and it's all over the news.

The comments essentially focused on condeming her for stooping so low (no pun intended) to try and apparently sustain CNB's interest in her company's services.

Granted she must not be an angel, but then again, who is these days?

That said, the man is a public officer and whether or not he was coerced or tempted, he should know where to draw the line. Obviously, this kind of thing goes on all over the place is 'squeaky clean Singapore' but often enough, it's swept under the carpet.

Whatever happened to the 'it takes two hands to clap' philosophy? Why is everyone jumping on her? She has her own demons to face, like he does, but why is it that the woman, most times in a situation like this garners the biggest brunt of condemnation?

It seems to be the trend with another closely-watched grades for sex case. Again, you should read the comments condemning how such a smart young woman could resort to having sex with her law professor to enhance her grades. She saw an opportunity to get what she wanted and took it. The professor could have said 'No' and reported her but he didn't.

And there are a lot more cases like this set to hit the courts in due course.

However, one case where I am on the side of the men is the underaged sex scandal where 51 men were implicated. This girl was not victimised. She was not tricked or a victim of human trafficking. She was a major player and promoter of her sexual services.

One or two men you could possibly argue her case but 51? Knowing she was underaged and insisting she was over 18 is reason enough to know that she was aware of what she was doing. Sure, the men and her pimp are in a bit of a mess right now but my guess is that she is still doing what she does with a different name and a different pimp.

I must say though that Singapore has certainly been an interesting place to be in right now. Scadalpore more like it. But my heart goes out to the real victims - the families of these players who will have to live with the scorn of many who fail to understand that it was their choices, their mistakes and their pennance to make and take.

We know not what the circumstances were that led them to do what they did and who are we judge? I mean seriously, who are we to judge? So let's not play the role of a moral judge. Let's just sit back and enjoy the show because I know you want to.

Missus Singapore out!

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