TRUTH ABOUT TOYS

I’m sure you’ve heard insinuations or picked up on chagrin directed towards a woman who admits that she owns a sex toy. Both men and women are guilty of that and both men and women have been at the receiving end too.

No doubt, the situation has improved since a decade ago when anyone who had a toy was seen as a pervert. Thankfully, the revolution of sex toys over the last several years has helped coaxed more ‘perverts’ – yours truly included - out in the open. Still, there is a lingering notion that remains.

One school of thought seems to think that women who own sex toys have unsatisfying sex lives. They are deemed desperate and have no sex appeal so they resort to DIY in the privacy of their bedrooms.

Perhaps so but what is so wrong with that? Besides, I think it is ignorant to think that women who are sexually confident or ooze sex appeal don’t have a toy or more stacked away at the back of their wardrobes.

Sex toys are such wonderful compliments to keeping one’s sexuality chugging when a partner is not available. And with today’s hectic work and family demands, that is becoming more commonplace.

So, if we fall into the comfort zone of not ‘pleasing’ ourselves when we feel like it, it will slowly evolve into a habit. Thereafter, sex or anything to do with it will no longer be given the priority it deserves.

Judging from the women I have come across, many lead highly active and vigorous sex lives but still maintain a ‘well stocked chest of toys’, apparently for those ‘rainy days’. It’s a way to keep the sexual motor tuned, in case you didn’t know.

Another school of thought seems to imply that the partners of these women who own sex toys just can’t cut it in bed. Truth be told, women love men who let them play with their toys. It’s like a passport to reveal their true selves and share their innermost fantasies or desires.

Think about it. Imagine how much more exciting one’s sex life can get when there are more options, more ideas, more fantasies and more props to widen the adventures in bed. Such men tend to be more confident of their sexuality and performance and will not be intimidated by the admission of sex toys into the bedroom setting.

 So if you are feeling like jumping on the bandwagon and getting a high-quality sex toy for yourself, you can certainly do so online. There are numerous stores to make a purchase from but you have to make sure that they are good quality, from a reputable store which have decent delivery arrangements.

When I weigh in all the values I look for in an online sex store, I always end up with Edenfantasys. But as it is with any online purchase, make a small purchase first to test the waters and I’m sure you will appreciate why they are my main choice. I’ve personally made 25 orders from them without any problems, and don’t think I’ll be making other arrangements anytime soon.

Missus Singapore out!


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